NO ONE IS COMING TO SAVE YOU!
I’m sorry to ruin the fantasy! No soul mate, spouse, partner, friend, or fairy godmother is coming to fix your life.
No one is going to COMPLETE you!
One of the biggest misconceptions society, movies, and the world teach us is that the right partners will make all our troubles disappear. Like in a Rom-Com movie, we have all been fed the notion that if we just weed through the cesspool of dating, we can find the ONE, and then we will live HAPPILY EVER AFTER!
Nope! Not even close! The truth is our “PERSON” will trigger all the unhealed parts of us. More on this later…
Unfortunately, this false premise is why many marriages and relationships fail.
If this is news to you, I’m sorry, but this TRUTH may set you free!
Don’t get me wrong.
You can find someone you enjoy, and at the beginning of a new relationship, when all those amazing love hormones, like oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin, are released, it is nothing short of magic…….it may even feel like you are living in a movie.
However, once that chemical high settles in and those fantasy lenses, you are looking through clear…….
You are left looking at another human being, who too has pains and trauma, hopes and needs, and most importantly, IMPERFECTIONS.
Once that honeymoon phase wears off, and it will and IT must…the real work begins.
EVERY RELATIONSHIP YOU ENTER IS A MIRROR!
It’s PURPOSE….to show you who you really are. No one likes to look inside. It’s painful, it’s scary, it’s your TRUTH!
It is a hell of a lot easier to focus on others and point out their flaws and issues. It’s easier to say they are messed up and need to change.
If only they would do this…then I would be happier!
It is so much easier to blame others for the hurts and pains we feel inside.
But, and it is a big BUT, healing NEVER happens outside of ourselves.
No one can LOVE us enough, GIVE us enough, FIX it enough, BUY us enough to fix our HURTS.
PERIOD.
But don’t take my word for it; TRY it! And for those of you who have been on the hamster wheel of relationships trying to find it…
How’s it working for you?
Here’s the good news…..
You can find the HAPPINESS, LOVE, CONNECTION, and VALIDATION you long for.
As the great Whitney Houston said, the greatest love of all is inside YOU!
Once you discover this, you begin operating from a different place.
You will see people and situations very differently.
If you are single, you will attract differently; if you are in a relationship, you experience your partner from a place of acceptance.
Does this sound good to you? Do you want to CHANGE?
Do you want to be in a healthy relationship built on friendship and mutual understanding? Do you want to HEAL so the past stays there?
Then click the link and get the CHANGE that so many of my clients experience.
Or not…
Eventually, we all get there. When we are sick and tired of being sick and tired!
How much longer do you want to keep doing what you have been doing while getting the same results?
The only person who can save you is YOU!
